Grow As We Go

079- What is Lingam Massage?

Samantha Charles Episode 79

Host Sam and co host Anthony dive deep into a topic that’s often misunderstood yet incredibly powerful: lingam massage. But... wait, what is that even? Listen in to hear about the emotional release, energetic alignment, and a profound sense of receiving possible...

In many cultures, male sexuality is framed around performance and dominance, often ignoring its potential for healing and connection. But what if we redefined it? In tantric traditions, the lingam—often reduced to just its physical form, a penis— means wand of light. That sounds pretty cool actually!

For Anthony, this realization was life-changing. Accustomed to always giving, he never questioned the weight of guilt and resistance around receiving until he found himself fully immersed in a tantric practice that forced him to do exactly that. This is why the practice is so healing: it invites men into their heart, learning lessons in an incredibly tangible way. 

Samantha’s journey into this work was just as unexpected. Having spent years facilitating women’s healing spaces, she never imagined offering tantric bodywork to men. But after a series of profound experiences—including a past-life reading that challenged her deepest fears—she felt called to explore what was truly holding her back. Spoiler alert, her avoidant tendencies might be a piece of it :) 

Curious about getting or receiving lingam massage? Good, that's what we're here for! Reach out to us on Instagram so you can experience this healing work for yourself!


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